Many Singaporeans may not be aware of the differences between the three types of situations described below:
1. Making a general statement
If I say, "Many Singaporeans have a negative mindset. They look at what is wrong, rather than what is right". This is a general statement, and is not targeted at any specific person. It does not imply that all Singaporeans behave in this manner; it recognized that some Singaporeans are different, i.e. have a positive mindset.
2. Making a judgment
One makes a judgement when it is targeted at a specific person or a specific issue. I avoid making judgment, as I do not have the relevant facts and it would be presumptuous to make a judgment without being invited. If I am invited to make a judgment, I would like to talk to the relevant parties and hear them out, before arriving at a judgment. This is called "natural justice".
3. Making a personal attack
This goes beyond making a judgment of a person. It is a direct attack of a person and have a negative connotation on that person's character or reputation. It can be defamatory and have resulted in legal warnings or actions being taken by political leaders.
Because these people cannot tell the difference between the three situations, they may feel offended at a general statement (believing that they are the target of the statement) and will freely make judgment of other people (in inappropriate situations) and even make personal attacks. They take these actions under the safety of anonymity. They do not even realize that these are cowardly and despicable actions.
To avoid these negative behavior, it is best that a person should give his or her views with the actual name, and be held accountable for the views. When they ask our political leaders to be transparent and accountable, they should set the same example to be accountable for their views.
I hope that this general statement is not offensive, and that my readers will accept it in the right spirit of frankness.
Tan Kin Lian
1. Making a general statement
If I say, "Many Singaporeans have a negative mindset. They look at what is wrong, rather than what is right". This is a general statement, and is not targeted at any specific person. It does not imply that all Singaporeans behave in this manner; it recognized that some Singaporeans are different, i.e. have a positive mindset.
2. Making a judgment
One makes a judgement when it is targeted at a specific person or a specific issue. I avoid making judgment, as I do not have the relevant facts and it would be presumptuous to make a judgment without being invited. If I am invited to make a judgment, I would like to talk to the relevant parties and hear them out, before arriving at a judgment. This is called "natural justice".
3. Making a personal attack
This goes beyond making a judgment of a person. It is a direct attack of a person and have a negative connotation on that person's character or reputation. It can be defamatory and have resulted in legal warnings or actions being taken by political leaders.
Because these people cannot tell the difference between the three situations, they may feel offended at a general statement (believing that they are the target of the statement) and will freely make judgment of other people (in inappropriate situations) and even make personal attacks. They take these actions under the safety of anonymity. They do not even realize that these are cowardly and despicable actions.
To avoid these negative behavior, it is best that a person should give his or her views with the actual name, and be held accountable for the views. When they ask our political leaders to be transparent and accountable, they should set the same example to be accountable for their views.
I hope that this general statement is not offensive, and that my readers will accept it in the right spirit of frankness.
Tan Kin Lian
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